#ask first

[yaknowlikenyah]

You know that trans woman in your life? Your friend who doesn't have a ton of queer support?

Touch her.

Little gestures. Hold her hand. Play with her skin. Press your leg against hers. Cuddle on the couch. You don't realize how robbed of touch your trans sisters are. You don't realize that they might not have a group of friends that dog pile on each other or girl friends who will fix their hair for them.

Touch her.

[loubella77]

Good afternoon . Just me again.

If you could pick your favorite item to have on someone's wallpaper what would it be ? You , a flower , animal ..etc...

Just curious as I'd like to get to know you even in the smallest ways as I know I'm not exactly your fav. Person

I won't use it as mine unless you want me to btw ☺️

Me or my art, it’s always good to see that I have fans haha

[theosconfessions]

@ohsosims

if youd like to read the stephens from the beginning you can do so over herrrreee :)

Scarlett: i feel like im going to throw up... do you think they heard anything? Robin: i mean maybe? they were LOUD.. Scarlett: GROSSSSSSS! Robin: hahahha! no really..i think im going to throw up too..whyd you make me watch that? Scarlett: i thought it was a cute love story?? i mean theyre still together.... Robin: Scarlett, i may have been young when they were on the bachelor but one thing i do remember is you were born while they were still on that show.. that sound love story like to you? Scarlett: i didnt even know that's how they met, Bobbi. they always just said they met in their bar or something.so how was i supposed to know we were going to turn it on and see THAT.. im going to be sick [heaving noises]

[donniesbabygirl28]

Any requests for Matt Dillon characters? (Also I will not be doing Matt Dillon but I am doing Matt Dillon CHARACTERS)

Also if I gotta say one more time to ASK BEFORE REBLOGGING MY POSTS. I hate that sm.

Only people that FULLY have my permission is @the-greasers-angel, @dljcem and @heyitstial

Thank you <3

[bluemoon1331]

Another day, another thief translating and reposting stories on WattPad without seeking permission. Sure as hell didn't expect Familiar Constellations to be my first snatched work (that I know of), but it is WattPad I suppose...

Oh and looks there's Meg, and Naff, and justfangirl, and tasty_violence, and icemetaltea, and probably a whole slew of other authors. At least they gave credit even if they didn't ask. Not that that makes it much better.

[texastendy-29]

my friend and fellow wtnv enthusiast made this banner for me. going to print it out and slap it on my wall after suppressing my urge to eat it

[2ndtryme]

I need someone to be mean to me sm

Like plz bully me

[radiosaturday]

Not interested in discourse about this but I really wish people would stop inviting me to stuff that's for "women and nonbinary people." Like friend, an explicit part of my gender is Not a Woman. I'm glad you're trying to be inclusive to people who might want that space, but it ain't me.

[rebellum]

Last night I almost jokingly called my partner a faggot and was like oh shit wait I should ask first, and he explained his boundaries around the term, but anyways the important part of this post is that he said something that's funny but also stuck with me

"I mean... I AM a faggot. Also, I feel like if you're dating a faggot, you have to be a little faggoty yourself"

And that second sentence is living in my head rent free it's following me around like a little butterfly

[puppppppppy]

filipina miku!! my mom helped me with her outfit ^_^

[koobiie]

shoutout to everyone who wants to infodump but cant string together coherent thoughts to form sentences and instead just look at you like this

[amateur-wordsmith]

the 2 ways I think tellerstone soul stealing would probably go

1:

B: can we go on a date so I can decide if I should steal your soul or not

H: ok

(later)

B: okay can I have your soul now

H: ok

B: thank uuu

H: ok

2:

B: can we go on a date so I can decide if I should steal your soul or not

H: ok

(later)

B: okay can I have your soul now

H: hell no

B: well too fucking bad I'm taking it anyways

(later)

B: thank uuu

H: fuck you

Okay it might not go exactly like these 2 ways but whatever I don't really care

[badolmen]

WARNING 18+

19

[inkskinned]

she's singing in another room and my dog is asleep at my feet. my grandma asked me why i haven't found a man yet and i laughed. oh, you know. i like my house clean.

my girlfriend is also my man is also "my partner" if i'm in a professional setting. yesterday we went to a ren faire and a man mimed at me - you're together? and at my delighted nod, his baffled, you're gay? made me laugh. a woman with rainbow hair said i love the two of you together. you're both so beautiful it's absurd.

my dad introduced my partner as my "..... friend. or whatever" the other day. he knows we're dating. in the same way, i was never able to get my sister's husband to stop saying that's gay like it's 2008. he still uses the word fa***t, and my sister's defense of him has always been well, he's just kidding.

my lover and i dance to old music in a tiny kitchen. we judge new music together and take food critique very seriously. we watch love is blind before we fall asleep and agree that if they had a queer season, it would be bloody but also make for excellent tv. of fucking course queer people would know someone for only 2 weeks and agree to get married. what are you saying.

at a bar with friends, a man puts his hand on my wrist. got a boyfriend? and yes, i do have a boyfriend, she's amazing. i am texting her while i wander around a gas station named after geese. i am visiting a swing state for a wedding. in the candy aisle i overhear: she's actually like a lesbian it's disgusting. two teenage girls with packaged sandwiches in their hands, giggling. no literally, like. i'm not, like. okay with her being there while we're all, like, naked and changing.

my girlfriend and i tailgate, drink gin and cider out of cups. from the frat group beside us, a man corrects himself with one of his friends: bro, i mean, nonbinary entity, and it makes everyone around him laugh, myself included. he razzes his friend the same way i would have killed for at 19 years old - like nothing happened, he continues: you apply sunscreen like an alien. he does a little sassy (and fairly accurate) dance interpretation of the motion. his friend is laughing so hard they're crying.

i am lucky, i live in a safe neighborhood in a safe state. my masc passenger princess comes up from DC. i drive her for an hour to where all the leaves are a violent arrangement of color. we walk along the trails, letting autumn into our blood. in this part of the state, there's a lot of pickup trucks and trump signs. when we chastely kiss before getting into the car, i accidentally make eye contact with a woman holding her child's wrist. she looks disgusted. she looks fucking pissed.

two hours later my girl and i are eating dinner on a patio, soaking in the last warmth of new england sun before the chill of winter sets in. we are giggling and trying to talk through plastic vampire teeth. at another table, i see a young woman sit up straighter. i watch her watch us. she blushes and takes her partner's hand from across the table. shy, like the taste of evening has just become something deeper.

it's worth it for this moment, i think. my lover is still humming the same song she's been singing for four days straight and i don't want to kill her for it. her guitar is beside my bed. her toothbrush is in my bathroom. in a few moments i will make us lunch. we are lucky enough to have found each other. it is lucky enough to be in love.

[everythingwasnormalhere]

Ok so, I just remembered how people in the comments of a tiktok video were being assholes, and I want to rant now :3

The video showed two wheelchair users at a train(?), who had just arrived to their stop to find nobody was there with a ramp so they could leave the train. One of them blocked the door so it wouldn't close, and this lasted for 15 minutes. The train was stopped for said 15 minutes. There was a button by the door, that said that it'd contact the driver when pressed. It didn't. People offered to go find the driver, and they came back with the news that there were no people in the platform to put the ramp. In the end, passengers had to go out, and place the ramp themselves, before the train could carry on. The wheelchair users had warned they were coming, and asked to have the ramp put there so they could get down. The platform turned out to have workers, they all just ran away because they'd never encountered the situation in which they needed to do this simple task.

Because of the workers' negligence, the train was forced to stop for 15 minutes.

Everyone's comments?

"Why did they block the doors and stop the train? So selfish" Selfish were workers who refused to do their job.

"What if someone had needed to get to their stop urgently? They shouldn't have stopped the train" It wasn't the disabled people's fault, it was the workers who were negligent.

"Why didn't they just wheel themselves down those steps?" They shouldn't have to risk their (expensive) chairs just because people didn't do what they were paid to do.

"If I had been in that train I would've been pissed, how dare you stop it" And you probably wouldn't have even thought about fixing the problem yourself, would you?

"Entitled assholes" Ok I'll leave you stranded in a train with everyone who could help you get down outright refusing to. Let's see who's an entitled asshole now.

If someone fights for accessibility, as much as it might be a bother for you, you do not have the right to be mad at them. If someone fights for accessibility, it is exclusively the fault of a world catered exclusively for able-bodied people.

So next time you think, "hey the consequences of these disabled people fighting for their rights bother me", instead of blaming them for this, help them solve the issue. This way, next time they will not have to fight at all.

Able bodied people, go out and fight for a fucking accessible world if you're not an asshole.

[ Able-bodied people are encouraged to reblog this post, but try not to derail ]

[disabled-is-not-a-dirty-word]

[ID: An image of a parody Spirit Halloween costume package called "ABLEIST DO-GOODER." The image for the costume is of a smiling woman bent over with her hands on her knees as though she were speaking to a child or a dog. The costume is advertised as coming with "condescending posture, sing-songey baby voice, help when you don't need or want it, and back handed compliments like: 'you're such an inspiration!,' 'it's nice that you're getting out of the house.,' 'you're so little and cute!,' 'do you know so-and-so? She has a disability, too!,' 'should you be here all by yourself?,' and 'I'll never complain again.'" It claims to be an adult sized costume in One Size Fits Most. /End ID]