#ask first

[yaknowlikenyah]

You know that trans woman in your life? Your friend who doesn't have a ton of queer support?

Touch her.

Little gestures. Hold her hand. Play with her skin. Press your leg against hers. Cuddle on the couch. You don't realize how robbed of touch your trans sisters are. You don't realize that they might not have a group of friends that dog pile on each other or girl friends who will fix their hair for them.

Touch her.

[theosconfessions]

@ohsosims

if youd like to read the stephens from the beginning you can do so over herrrreee :)

Scarlett: i feel like im going to throw up... do you think they heard anything? Robin: i mean maybe? they were LOUD.. Scarlett: GROSSSSSSS! Robin: hahahha! no really..i think im going to throw up too..whyd you make me watch that? Scarlett: i thought it was a cute love story?? i mean theyre still together.... Robin: Scarlett, i may have been young when they were on the bachelor but one thing i do remember is you were born while they were still on that show.. that sound love story like to you? Scarlett: i didnt even know that's how they met, Bobbi. they always just said they met in their bar or something.so how was i supposed to know we were going to turn it on and see THAT.. im going to be sick [heaving noises]

[chaeryeos]

⠀ ♩　@umiena

[donniesbabygirl28]

Any requests for Matt Dillon characters? (Also I will not be doing Matt Dillon but I am doing Matt Dillon CHARACTERS)

Also if I gotta say one more time to ASK BEFORE REBLOGGING MY POSTS. I hate that sm.

Only people that FULLY have my permission is @the-greasers-angel, @dljcem and @heyitstial

Thank you <3

[bluemoon1331]

Another day, another thief translating and reposting stories on WattPad without seeking permission. Sure as hell didn't expect Familiar Constellations to be my first snatched work (that I know of), but it is WattPad I suppose...

Oh and looks there's Meg, and Naff, and justfangirl, and tasty_violence, and icemetaltea, and probably a whole slew of other authors. At least they gave credit even if they didn't ask. Not that that makes it much better.

[listenerofpodcasts]

my friend and fellow wtnv enthusiast made this banner for me. going to print it out and slap it on my wall after suppressing my urge to eat it

[coulsonlives]

People don't understand that for a lot of artists, their sketchpads and books are as personal as a diary. Like it's a place where they can dump their weird ideas and shit, sometimes without even thinking. Of course artists can get upset when people go through their sketchbooks without asking, would people be okay if someone went through their diary without asking

[2ndtryme]

I need someone to be mean to me sm

Like plz bully me

[radiosaturday]

Not interested in discourse about this but I really wish people would stop inviting me to stuff that's for "women and nonbinary people." Like friend, an explicit part of my gender is Not a Woman. I'm glad you're trying to be inclusive to people who might want that space, but it ain't me.

[rebellum]

Last night I almost jokingly called my partner a faggot and was like oh shit wait I should ask first, and he explained his boundaries around the term, but anyways the important part of this post is that he said something that's funny but also stuck with me

"I mean... I AM a faggot. Also, I feel like if you're dating a faggot, you have to be a little faggoty yourself"

And that second sentence is living in my head rent free it's following me around like a little butterfly

[fetch-theboltcutters]

question.

so how do you feel about my substack being like, a weekly journal sort of deal? each sunday i post a journal, maybe once a week i post a poem or an observation from my day.

[shields-and-depthgauges-oh-my]

PSA for this fandom i’m in

so i get it young people or people who aren’t well versed in fandom/internet etiquette yet, might not know this and no one tells them so I WILL TELL YOU ALL NOW :

you know when you see cool artists with cool drawing and you get all excited right? you love their art and even better if you can be friends with them?

but some things that you do that might gonna end up annoy those artists and could potentially make them AVOID YOU INSTEAD :

1. reposting their art. by repost, it means : you downloaded their art and post it as your own post. why do artists didn’t like when their art is reposted? you’re just sharing their art and want everyone to know right?

people who didn’t know the artist or you would see the art uploaded on your account without credit and they gonna think YOU are the one who made it. from scratch. all of it....when that's not the case, but people don’t usually check. so the recognition and comments and praise goes to YOU, instead of the actual artist

kinda the exact opposite of what you want to achieve if you want to share their work and want to make everyone know how good artist they are isn’t it?

so what to do then? how do i tell them i love their art without them ended up hating and annoyed by my approach? by REBLOGGING (or REPLY AND RETWEET if you’re on twitter). wait till the artists themselves upload it on their account and then REBLOG/RETWEET. or if you must feeling like, inspired or want to make fanart of their fanart, you can reblog the original art post with your art or reply the original art post if it’s in twitter, and this way, both the source art, and your fanart of said fanart is there, and it won’t look like you’re stealing/taking the art without permission

2. similar case when when a fic writer got a “when ‘s the next update” comment on their fic, let them finish their work on their own pace, i know you're excited for their next work but BE PATIENT PLEASE. maybe you just want to ask when is it done, but that kind of question can be taken as "hurry up and finish it!"....some artists might get put off by such demand and might not even gonna want to finish it because of that, like "who are you? you didn’t even pay me to make this why are you so demanding?" so better be careful

same thing with REQUESTS. demanding free request out of nowhere when you just met for few days isn’t gonna make good impression....

sometimes the artists just don’t have time, or have real life stuff going on, life, work, or just don’t have energy or ideas to make new art or finish the art and such things cannot be forced. they're human beings with their own life and schedule too, please consider that.

Please i know you probably had no idea, and i apologize if this post sounds harsh or overwhelming. But i'm worried that you might end up driving those artists/other fan creators away if you're not mindful when interacting with them

[nevermorefilth]

PSA Time:

If you're not 18 and don't have your age posted in your Bio, you will be blocked.

If you send me dick pics without getting express consent first, you will be blocked.

If you post something of mine without crediting me, you will be reported, and then....thats right. Blocked.

If you would like to reblog one of my pictures, please ask. It's just common courtesy and consent matters. I can share my body, you cannot. Its not yours. Ask first.

This is a safe space. Don't be hateful or cruel because you will be put on blast and then...you guessed it. Blocked.

Just a general rule of thumb. Don't be a fuckhead.

[puppyeared]

filipina miku!! my mom helped me with her outfit ^_^

[koobiie]

shoutout to everyone who wants to infodump but cant string together coherent thoughts to form sentences and instead just look at you like this

[badolmen]

WARNING 18+

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